MEN: How to get a great guy THIS YEAR

1. Give chemistry a minute. Many women (and men) erroneously believe that the first three seconds of laying eyes on someone must crackle with intense electricity. Relationship experts will tell you otherwise. And any woman who ever realized she was in love with her best male friend will say ditto. Besides, if you were meant to be with the guy you were super-hot for from the get-go, you’d have married what’s-his-name from 11th grade. Sometimes it takes a while to get over your nervousness, to stop fronting, to hit on a shared passion or just “feel right” before lightning strikes.

2. Never look back. If you get that feeling — in your heart, your gut, your head and your senses — that a relationship is not working, make a clean break and don’t look back. Do not stay in the wrong relationship; it’s not fair to you or him. And if it’s a bad (as in physically or verbally abusive) scene, get out now!

3. Don’t kid yourself. Men are not very complicated, so if he tells you he’s not looking for a relationship or doesn’t want to settle down, believe him. He’s not lying. He’s not testing you. He’s not just in need of the love of a good woman (i.e., you) to prove otherwise. You’re wasting your time at best, setting yourself up for heartbreak at worst.

4. Relax about interracial dating. There are plenty of fish in the sea, and they come in all colors. Just make sure you’re realistic about the potentially unenthusiastic reaction of your parents, his parents and the public.

5. Date like a man. When it comes to romance, women let men call the shots. Flip the script once in a while and date on your own terms. See a few different guys at once; wait a day to call him back and end the phone call first; lean over and plant one on

Source from : Singapore Club Forum